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Thursday, August 11, 2016

Tips Dengan Anak Anak

Tips dengan anak anak:

1— Jika melihat anakmu menangis, jangan buang waktu untuk mendiamkannya. Cuba tunjuk burung atau awan di atas langit agar dia melihatnya, dia akan terdiam. Kerana psikologi manusia saat menangis, adalah menunduk.

2— Jika ingin anak-anakmu berhenti bermain, jangan berkata: "Dah, sudah main, stop sekarang!". Tapi katakan kepada mereka: "Main 5 minit lagi yaaa". Kemudian ingatkan kembali: "Dua minit lagi yaaa". Kemudian barulah katakan: "Dah, waktu main sudah habis". Mereka akan berhenti bermain.

3— Jika anak-anak sedang bertelingkah atau menyebabkan keadaan riuh di sesuatu tempat, dan engkau ingin mengalih perhatian mereka, maka katakanlah: "siapa yang mau mendengar cerita ibu? angkat tangan..". Salah seorang akan mengangkat tangan, kemudian disusul dengan anak-anak yang lain, dan semuanya akan diam.

4— Katakan kepada anak-anak sewaktu mahu tidur: "tidur sayang.. esok pagi kan kita solat subuh",  maka perhatian mereka akan selalu ke akhirat. Jangan berkata: "Jom tidur, esok kan sekolah", akhirnya mereka tidak solat subuh kerana perhatiannya adalah dunia.

5— Nikmati masa kecil anak-anakmu, kerana waktu akan berlalu sangat cepat. Kenakalan dan kekanak-kanakan mereka tidak akan lama, ia akan menjadi kenangan. Bermainlah bersama mereka, tertawalah bersama mereka, berguraulah bersama mereka.

6— Tinggalkan HP seketika, dan matikan juga TV. Jika ada teman yang menelefon urusan tak penting, katakan: "Maaf, saya sedang sibuk dengan anak-anak". Semua ini tidak menyebabkan jatuhnya wibawamu, atau hilangnya keperibadianmu. Orang yang bijaksana tahu bagaimana cara menyeimbangkan segala sesuatu dan menguasai pendidikan anak.

Selain itu, jangan lupa berdoa dan bermohon kepada Allah. Dengarkan doa kita didepan anak-anak supaya mereka tahu betapa pentingnya mereka pada kita.

-Outside sources.

Monday, August 1, 2016


Don't build your marriage on your feelings that constantly change

Build your marriage on your faith in Allah.

Wednesday, July 13, 2016

Eid Mubarak 2016


p/s: Above picture exclude me and my little family. We both work on Eid.

Tuesday, June 28, 2016

Two.Thousand.Fifteen Most Precious Moment

Major throwback. One year ago.
Different women different pregnancy/birth story but they are all exciting, encouraging, nervous, infectious moments for each of us. I had my baby very early from the expected date. I was admitted to a ward due to low hb. No contraction, 0 cm, nothing. Not to mentioned, hours monitoring before they decided to send me to the ward. Hm, I really thought I will run because seriously I always run from the hospital before but not this time. Blur me just followed the instructions.
(Make it short)
12 hours passed and nothing happened.  I walked around the ward, and kept on thinking of going home haha its so hot in there erghh and and people screaming here and they made me feel anxious. I can't sleep. So, I watched "drama inside the ward with screaming, yelling, yada yada" until the next morning.  I even know who come in and out of the ward lol
6am (new day) carried on my day as normal (in hosp) and I feel nothing. Then, the nurse came and told me, they will induce me at 8am. I was like 'haaa?'. Rush to the toilet, took my showered, get ready and keep on asking "am I ready?"  "are you ready to see the world, baby?" Fuhh. Fuhh. Keep telling myself everything will be fine. You know with your first baby everything is so new.
8am walk to the one small room nearby the toilet, pull the door, and well guess what? I'm not alone. There's about 6-7 mothers there pheww at least I'm not alone. But I'm the youngest among them pfft even heard they said, it's hurt and blablabla *take a deep breath* and and next, my name was called ha ha okay, check up down there do hurt that accidentally I kicked my doctor. He he he next, back to my bed, lied down and watching around. Ugh.
Some hours had passed already, no contraction and 0 cm was not a sign of good progress. I was told before, that I would require second induction if there's still nothing. At 4pm I had uncomfortable cramps but nothing you could set your watch to. I did walk around the ward and talking to other patients and alternated between the couch and the toilet.. At 4:30pm menstrual cramp feeling got too intense so I decided to sleep.  Woke up to my husband touched, and smile :,) ask him to ask nurse for pain killer. So,  the doctor came over to check on me and the baby and was told its already 6cm open, suddenly they were shouting one another put me on the stroller, push me straight to the labor room.
(Inside the labor room)
Dangggg so damn cold. There is some mistakes made by the doctor. Its only 3cm open. Arghh. The nurse keep on babbling, mad at the doctor maybe. I was left alone. Heard that, the room next to me gave birth without the doctor or nurse luckily nothing happen to the baby. Damn! I'm scared. Then, I realized, contraction were intense enough that I needed to hold something when they hit. No one come. I continued bouncing and breathing and humming and felt as though the contractions were getting a bit stronger. Then, the nurse come over shortly and checks on how things were going. She said 5cm open. We need to wait until 10cm. *sigh* 
The pain quickly intensified I went with my gut and my gut was telling me that the pain was too much for me to bear. I could feel my body pushing. The nurse asks me if I want to push now. I nodded. She check, 6cm. She called my husband to come inside. I ask for my mom actually haha. But only husband is allowed to go inside LR. I was just trying to remember to breath. 
(Make it short)
Three push and the baby was born :) It was 6:33pm. I was in labour room not more than two hours and a premature baby were out. Thank you, Allah for an easy delivery and short term pain. While the other nurse taking my baby out or labor room to somewhere to cleaned her and go through some processed. Me still there saw the nurse was taking out the placenta and do stitch “thingy”. Glad to know that I only lost a fair amount of blood. Alhamdulillah. My birth was far from what I had imagined yet the whole experience was utterly amazing.
Syukran Ya Allah.

Wednesday, June 1, 2016

Hey, I'm back.

It’s been awhile...

So, I’m finally doing this: starting my blog journey again. Because I cannot keep the sweet moments with my little princess to myself only. My hectic but adventurous life needs to be shared.

Wishing a good day to you all. #simplepleasures

Thursday, July 2, 2015

It's Fri-yay!


Each morning when I open my eyes, I say to myself; I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I just have one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it 

by [Groucho Marx]